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QWhy can't I find myself ?

I know the basics. My age (13) my name (Penny) my birthday, and other things like that. I've been highgly smart because, ever really ... I mean, the evidence that my parents had done the show, and I was always much more mature compared to other people my age ... But since I was young I wanted to be an actor (I've given up dreams like that, I've been thinking about getting primarily a degree in psychology and criminal justice, and finally go for a doctorate in psychology or philosophy) and I would try to put it on paper and see if people believed me, which they did. I thought it was the real me, or what I was playing was real. I kept it, and nobody suspected what. I started this when I was about 5. Anyway, I the past two years I have been trying to figure out who I am, and I can not do it. I have lost the sense of what I really am ... And I do not know how to find ... Now I feel like I'm completely losing control of myself ... If you look at the questions I have asked in recent days, not at all like my usual self ... The person I seem to be losing much control.a of the things I feel to be true feelings at first, confused by the way, and I can not tell if they are real or fake feelings my brain is confused in my head placing ... To act ... To get attention? Given my career choice, I've done some study on myself, and I have concluded that although I am not yet 18, I am now or wait to be passive-aggressive sociopath with narcissistic tendencies light. Actually I have no idea if what I'm talking about now is even I, or other stupid personality you can not control. Do as multiple personality disorder? Actually I have no idea. I can not say if when I'm having a panic attack is real, or is my brain doing something stupid for no reason that is not real! If I feel like I've lost my mind, I do not know if it really is or not, or if I'm faking .... And worst of all I can not tell my therapist how I feel, because I do not know, and if I saw this, I feel stupid .... Help me please?

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#1TeenieAnswered at 2012-12-18 10:19:16
13 * no * is known to be a time when people are usually like someone just said. It's actually the beginning of a time of turmoil in his life , his teenage years that changes a LOT carried out ! You worry too much about things . Focus on the things that make you feel happy , those are the things that define who you are . People change and evolve throughout life . interests and different things make them happy at different times in their lives for different reasons . You do not have to know what you want to be when you're 13 . some people , others have an idea and most do not know anything ! You have plenty of time to change your mind as well , even if decided one thing ! Many people even start college with undeclared racing because not even sure at that point ! Stop worrying about what might be wrong one day. Focus on the here and now . These things mentioned are not what happens to you and no one knows what can happen . What you are is what makes you happy , hgow treat others and what is important to you in life. Keep it simple and relax , you're doing fine .
#2Jasmine202005Answered at 2013-01-13 12:34:32
I hate when I can not find . Check under the bed , which is where it usually is.
#3LyriAnswered at 2013-03-29 04:33:38
#4Can sombody please help meAnswered at 2013-04-18 23:33:27
At the age of thirteen who is or has reached puberty . This means that the time to develop personal relationships , ie . Meet the members of the sex appeal
With highly intellectual skills almost certainly is thinking or analyzing yourself too . Something like go with the flow , you're not your intellect , you are your personality.
#5MeriahAnswered at 2014-04-16 16:28:36
Well I tell you what, 13 is usually the age that you start finding yourself so it is completely normal that you are trying to figure yourself out, however I do think you feel that you feel lost more than normal. I don't think there is a day where you wake up and know who you are; I think you keep growing each day and learning more about yourself each day. I'm 15 and I have a very similar situation to you. I was always acting, and people did believe me too, however, now it has become a habit and I've lost contact with myself because of how much I am so focused on the role that I am playing with people. A few days ago, I decided to let go of the showing off part. Like I still imagined that i was in whatever scene I was in, but without the people seeing, and I don't think I've had a better feeling and warmth and contentment and stability. I was able to be in-tuned with myself, I was able to express how I really feel, and I felt so authentic and real. You may wanna start doing that - start letting go of how people would view you, and think inwards instead.

I don't think I was much help, but I hope I helped!
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