I have said before I have symptoms because I could be the limit. I have severe mood swings, i self harm, I'm very impulsive, I have rocky relationships because a minute i love my boyfriend and the next I hate it for so little or no apparent reason, but the main thing I'm not convinced the problems of abandonment. This is where it does not fit, i do not fear abandonment, almost hope people stop me because of the way I act. i can be very horrible that I hate. My view is to leave or be left, I hope people finally see what I'm really like it and leave me, so do it before it gets a chance.
It is dramatic, but I really hate myself. My mood changes a ridiculous amount and I can be great for people without reason and just flick and be really horrible and disgusts me how awful I can be. It is not only good for your terrible depression, empty, happy, angry, anxious, sad, loving, despising myself .... I suffered from bulimia for 10 months, which he has done with my periods of major depression and more frequent. If I had not had mood swings and self harm etc long before they would have assumed bulimia depression due to bulimia but talking to other boundary lines, share many characteristics. I get on very bad spiral where everything is out of control then suddenly out of it. I used to be happy and sometimes moody, but I'm in a bad mood / depression and cheerful at times, but I can never feel good and happy, I just feel empty and lost. I do not know where I belong, I do not know who my friends, what I do, I do not know many people at the age of 19 know what they want, etc., but I think at that age I should be able to put end these mood swings and pathetic childish behavior, thought id leave it, but I never did.
I do not think it's as drastic as the limit, but people keep saying that
#1emyAnswered at 2012-10-24 09:54:51
Who told you that you are Borderline ? Friends? People on the Internet ? There is only one way to know for sure . Consult a therapist who specializes in BPD and be evaluated properly. That said - Having long been Borderline ( now recovered) The first question the fact that fear abandonment . That is the main theme of this disorder , around which all the other symptoms come . Also mood swings in BPD are fast and triggered by specific triggers . In bipolar , mood swings happen for no reason what so ever. In BPD moods last hours to a few days . In the bipolar moods last longer. These two conditions have some overlap and in many cases a person suffering from both. The longer you put off , assessment and treatment , most likely not recover from these debilitating disorders .
#3HaylieyAnswered at 2013-04-02 18:59:18
Do not hurt yourself . Know that God can help you live a better life if you want help . You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our creator , omniscient , omnipotent , eternal , holy , love. God loves us and sent His Son , Jesus Christ , so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end - time and again without death . It is always what happens after we die . Or go to heaven and be with God forever , or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ to heaven . Ill go to hell . We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world . We continue to love and obey God and love others by him . Jesus Christ , God's Son , is our bridge to God . Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins . We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. It 's about being a born-again Christian . Faith in God is a gift from God . You can pray for faith in God . Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God . Evolution can not explain the world's natural beauty , for example , the parks in the world , animals , flowers , peacocks , sunsets , butterflies , rainbows , etc. Once the faith , you can pray the sinner's prayer to be a born again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God . This is the prayer :